Account Menu

This is where you control all your personal settings on SpicyMatch. From here you can Edit your profile, Edit your Location, Check your Account, control your Invites and Invite new Friends, modify your password, and even message support for help. You can control your privacy settings and Email Notifications. You can also select to hide or block different categories of members, such as Single Males, Single Females, TV, Shemales, Gang Bang groups, etc. All your personal settings are here, in one clear, simple menu.

Bladeren door Leden

This is one of the places from where you can view members of SpicyMatch. You can either choose to view Recent Members who joined (which is the default setting) and you can also select to view which members are online or view your friends. You can also sort how you view these members by Distance, Number of Photos uploaded, Friends, most number of likes, or most Validations. Simply choose your favourite option from the two drop down menus.

On this page you can also choose to view Fan Pages as well as Groups.

Blog

This is the site's public blog. Our experts constantly write articles related to our lifestyle, be it clubs, travels, advice lines or just thoughts. Feel free to visit our blogs and even share them on your favourite vanilla social networks.

Chats

Our chat module enables one to one chats with your friends, as well as video chat. We also have preset chatrooms which all members can join. You can also create your own Public, Password Protected and Invite Only chat rooms. The chat module can be found at the bottom of your screen.

Uw profiel aanpassen

From your Personal Settings you can edit all your profile details at any time. You can change your Searching For, update your Basic Information, update your Personal Information, and enter your Description. We highly recommend updating these areas from time to time, as it is a proven fact that a more accurate and updated profile results in more matches.

Locatie aanpassen

You can edit your location from your Personal Settings at any time. Either enter the new location in the text box available, or simply drag the pin in the map to the new location. You can be as accurate as you like, or choose to keep your profile a town away ;) Please enter your town/city first, and then select the country from the drop down menu that appears.

E-mail notificaties

You can select what email notifications you receive from the Personal Settings page. You can switch them On or Off at any time.

Evenementen

This is where you see all events posted on SpicyMatch.com. We have 3 types of events. Public, which are visible by all our members and everyone is free to join, Closed which are visible by all our members, however they will need to apply to the host to view details and join the event, and we also have Secret Events which are only visible by the organiser and the people they choose to invite (a great feature if you want to organise a party between close friends without letting anyone else know). All members and Fan Pages on SpicyMatch can organise events. Simply select "Create Event" and fill out the required fields.

Vrienden

This is where you see your friends, and control your friends lists. By default, you have 3 friends lists, Close Friends, Aquaintances & Restricted. You can use these lists to control what you show. For example, you can make a photo album visible only to, say, Close Friends only. You can create as many lists as you like, so if you go to a party with a few other couples, you can create a new list for these friends only, and share particular photos with them only. Friends lists are the ultimate option to share what you want, with whom you want !

Groepen

Groups are a great way of keeping in touch with groups of friends or even whole communities. They are also a great tool to discuss and share views on a particular subjects, such as Swinging Locations, Dogging, fantasies, and really truly, anything that comes to mind. SpicyMatch offers 3 types of Groups - Public, which are visible by all our members and everyone is free to join, Closed which are visible by all our members, however they will need to apply to the group Administrator to join, and we also have Secret Groups which are only visible by the Group Admin and the people they choose to invite (a great feature if you want to keep things strictly between your group of friends).

Invites

You love SpicyMatch?..... then what are you waiting for to invite all your friends to join and share your experiences and stay in touch with them in the safest possible way. You can invite your friends either from your Account Menu, or from the link provided on the right hand side of your wall. There are two ways of how you can invite your friends. You can either choose to send them an automatically generated email by our system - simply enter their email address and our system will send it to them. You can also enter your personal message like "Hey Ana & Mike, check this site out, we just found it and love it. Join us... xxx and c u soon..... Jenny & Pete" and it will be entered into this email.

Alternatively, you can choose our most preferred way to invite your friends. Generate a unique code and send it to your friends in any way you like – you can send this code via a regular email, or a private message on Facebook or any other sites you are on together, or you can even send this code via SMS. All your friend has to do is copy and paste it in our Sign-Up page and voila', they can register on our community! Please remember you have to generate a new code for every different person you invite.

Your friends haven't joined yet? From your Invites control panel, you can choose to resend any particular invite or even delete it.

Laatste foto's

This is where you find the latest photos uploaded on SpicyMatch. Please keep in mind that members might choose to keep their photos private – Private Photos will not show up here. This depends on your individual privacy settings.

Kaart

Our Map feature is a great way to explore the world of swinging, literally, and it's the first of its kind on any social networking community. Grab your mouse (or even your finger on mobile devices) and tour the world seeing what Clubs, Nudist Beaches, Nudist Camp sites, Adult Shops, Swinger Hotels & Swinger resorts, etc are available in that particular area. By default, the Map sends you to your registered location, however you can simply drag the map around, zoom in or zoom out for further inspection. Selecting the different layers of the Map is quick and easy, simple check the box on the left hand side of the Map page, and you can see that particular layer. You can also select the Members layer to view other members in your area, or anywhere in the world.

Please note that the Map is constantly being updated, so keep an eye on it from time to time.

Berichten

Your message centre is where you control all your messages. You can choose to Archive messages from your inbox (although they won't appear in your inbox, they will still be available in your archives folder). Messages on SpicyMatch.com do not expire. You can manually delete any message threads you like once you're in the message itself.

Mobile

SpicyMatch is totally compliant with most mobile devices. Enjoy our community whilst on the go!

Wachtwoord Aanpassen

You can change your password anytime from the Account menu.

Meldingen

This is where all your notifications come in. Whether you've been validated, someone likes your profile, comments on your photos or posts, invites you to an event, or any other interaction with other members, all your in-site notifications come in here. For notifications received by email, please see Email Notifications.

Leden Online

Members can select whether to appear online to all members, their friends, and even a selective group of friends (by creating a personalised Friends List). This is totally up to one's chosen setting in your Personal Settings.

Pagina's

Fan Pages for all Swingers Clubs, Points of Interest (POI's), Nudist Beaches, Wellness Centres, Resorts, Hotels, Adult Shopping and anything related to our lifestyle can be found here. You can choose to see either All the pages, or sort them by category. You can also filter these pages by Distance, number of Photos uploaded and number of Likes. Fan pages work just like pages on vanilla social networks, whereby once you hit Like on their page, you will receive their updates and keep in touch.

Any member of SpicyMatch can open a Fan Page if they offer any service related to our lifestyle, whether it's small parties to large events or online shops, travel etc.... Simply hit "Create Page" and let SpicyMatch give you direct exposure to who matters!

Also, we love keeping you updated with anything that might be of interest to our lifestyle. Should you know of any person, website group or business that should open a Fan Page on our site, please recommend them.

Fotoalbum

You can create as many photo albums as you like. You can also control who can view all of your albums. When creating an album, you can decide who can view this album either from the default friends lists we have created for you, or any other friends lists you created yourself. You can change these settings at any time.

When you click an album, you can select whether to delete a particular photo or make it as your profile photo. Simply hover your mouse over the photo thumbnail and select the little arrow that appears on the bottom right hand corner of the thumbnail to select your choice.

Please bear in mind that photos might take a little while to appear online as ALL photos are checked manually by our staff.

Privacy

We totally value Member Privacy. From your Personal Settings you can edit your Privacy at any time. You can choose how to control who can see your profile, who can see your wall, who can write on your wall and even who can view your online status. And it doesn't stop here. You can choose to share some information with a certain group of members, for example, you would like your profile to be visible only to Validated Members, or you can select to be seen online by Close Friends only. The Privacy Options are endless. Spend some time to go through these settings and familiarise yourself with the hundreds of available options. Remember that you can create a specific list of friends and decide what to share with them. Online Privacy in our lifestyle has never been this customisable!

Profile photo

Your profile's image is used as main photo for your account. Keep in mind that, depending on your privacy settings, this picture may be viewed by all users. We only accept full body images where the face may be censored. No genitals only or genital close-ups images are allowed.

You can make any of the photos you uploaded into your albums as Profile Photo at anytime. Simply hover your mouse over the photo thumbnail and select the little arrow that appears on the bottom right hand corner of the thumbnail to select your choice.

Also bear in mind that photos might take a little while to appear online as ALL photos are checked manually by our staff.

Report profiles

SpicyMatch is totally dedicated to the most enjoyable experience online. If at any point in time you are harassed by any of our members, please report the profile to Support.

Aanvragen

As Friends' requests come in, they are marked by a number in a red box next to your Requests menu at the top of the screen. Here you can choose whether to accept a friends request or ignore it. You can also ignore a friends request temporarily, and go back later to accept it.

Beoordelingen

This is where all your validations are. You can view, accept, hide or even ignore validations. You can also validate a friend whom you had already validated. Let's say you got to know these guys much better since you first validated them, you can simply edit past validations by giving them a new one. A new validation will update your old one. Please remember that new validations need to be accepted to be visible.

We value our validation system. It ensures the authenticity of user profiles and quickly weeds out fake profiles, therefore making your experience online safer and more rewarding. Validated members are more trustworthy and an asset to our community. They also receive many more hits from real profiles. Should you encounter any abuse in our validation system, please report this immediately. Please ONLY validate members you know in person and can vouch for. Validating members you do not know can result in your account being terminated as false validations undermine the credibility of the SpicyMatch Validation system.

If you haven't met any of the SpicyMatch members in person yet, you can still obtain a SpicyMatch validation to make your profile more credible and verify your authenticity. A SpicyMatch validation will also confirm your Category (whether couple or single). Simply contact our Support Team for more info.

Wie heeft je bezocht

This is where you can see who's viewed your profile. You can see who's viewed your profile since your last visit, in the past 24 hours, in the last 2 days, the last week, the last month or see all your profile views.

Prikbord

Your Wall is the section of your profile where others can send you posts, photos,links, etc. The wall is a public writing space so others who view your profile can see what has been written on your wall. Once you have received a wall message, you can comment on it, like it, share it and even delete it if you like. You can control who can see your wall from your privacy settings.

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